Changing the Narrative (Part 2)

The stories we tell ourselves matter. However, so often these tales that are so fundamental to who we are, are based upon just†some†of the truths from our complex and beautiful lives. When we change the narrative, we open new possibilities for our happiness†and effectiveness and well-being.†(Read more on the Narratives …

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Learning to Give, Learning to Dance

For my wifeís family, life is filled with dance. Every New Yearís and Christmas, each cumpleaŮos and quinceanera, everyone would laugh and yell, cry and dance. And in the culture of her family, when the music is playing, it is the duty of the man to ensure that no woman …

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Back to the Cave Again

In the Republic, Plato gives us his ďallegory of the caveĒ. Prisoners who are chained to their spots underground see only images flickering on the wall. They have no other reality. They are shown shadows of puppets without dimensions, without substance. Our poor little creatures know nothing else of life. …

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Is This Forgiveness?

Jack Kornfield tells stories of forgiveness, heroic and true. Of Buddhist nuns brutally imprisoned for saying their prayers, afraid only that they would lose their compassion for their captors.†Or of the mother who welcomed the killer of her child into her home, and nurtured him and made him kind. They …

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Sitting in the Rain

Every two weeks I lead a pre-dawn meditation group in public rose garden. This morning, waking up at 5:15 to rain and a cold front that had crept in, I didnít expect anyone else to join me. But I thought I would head over anyway. There is a pavilion under …

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Beyond the Horizon

I donít know the purpose of the sunrise. As I lie on the beach looking out over the water, I canít say anything about indubitable truths or universal structures of knowledge. I only know to look for the foundations of meaning in the lived experience of the world. The sun …

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A Reluctant Christian

I donít know whether I can be called a Christian. I donít believe in the divinity of Christ. At least, I donít see his holiness as anything different than my own. Or different from yours. Or from the effulgent heart in each of us, even if occasionally dulled. What I …

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Communities of the Heart

One day each month, I lead a well-being discussion over lunch in Research Triangle Park, North Carolina.† (Details can be found here) The talks are part philosophy, part psychology. There is a tentative spirituality that often creeps in, and is always welcomed. But at their core, the dialogues are human, …

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The Pursuit

It is so easy to get caught up in all the chasing. There are the goals and dreams and aspirations. We pursue a vision, or our aim, or any other number of respectable things. †To swing, as the poet said, ďthe earth a trinket at my wristĒ. But after the …

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Absence and Return

For several years, I have been loosely involved with an online Buddhist community. About a year ago, I began to get more active and made some commitments to the group. I was going to meditate more. I would be more mindful in my eating. One night each week, I would …

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